Trust me, I know how confusing and frustrating it can be at times but the fact remains that when a guy likes you, it is obvious … Read on for exactly how to tell if a guy likes you: If you’re at a party, he comes up to you and strikes up a conversation.If you’re not in the same immediate vicinity, he reaches out to you.When you add emotions (and a bit of ego) into the mix, it can be hard to see things clearly.Instead, you’re seeing the situation through a lens of wishful thinking and sometimes a bit of self-deception.You’ll get further confirmation of this if he remembers the things you told him: where you went to high-school, your major in college, the name of your first pet. You may notice he talks about himself a lot (especially the good parts, like areas where he is succeeding).
Maybe his company is hiring and he asks if you know anyone looking for a job, or he knows someone looking for a roommate and he asks if you know anyone, or he asks if you have any recommendations for a place to take his parents for dinner.
If he likes you, he’ll look to see your reaction right away.
Many experts claim that a guy’s pupils will dilate if he’s interested but this can be kind of tricky to assess.
If you notice that he mimics your body language, it means he’s trying to connect to you and is completely focused on you.
Other body language cues to look out for is if he leans in when talking to you, points his feet towards you, and maintains eye contact.